Are you ready for deeper intimacy in your relationships? Are you ready to drop the conditioning that holds you back? Are you ready to reclaim your own creative authority around your body, your sexuality and your life?

Men and women are the same, in that we all want the freedom to reveal ourselves fully in love and trust.

The genders differ however in the type of conditioning we received around our sexuality growing up. Women tend to shut down sexually when they don’t feel safe, and men shut down emotionally rather than allowing themselves to feel vulnerable. This can cause problems in relationships and intimacy.

Conscious lovemaking opens a whole new way of relating which sheds the layers of old habits and conditioning such as fear, guilt and shame, to become more heart centred and authentic.

You can open and surrender together to embrace your fullness, connecting sexual energy through the whole body…. All to experience your natural bliss.

A woman will often say:
“I know there is more richness in me than I am expressing. I want to live fully. I want to feel my body open.
I want to feel my body say “Yes”, and respond from there.
I want to feel my body say “No”, and respond clearly from that place.
I want to be so connected with myself that I allow every nuance of my feeling to wash through me like a wave. Sometimes the wave roars and crashes, and breaks on the rocks, and other times it rises up from the depths of its power beneath, and surges like a seismic shift. Sometimes it plays and bubbles and rocks gently.
I want to be that fully connected with myself.
This is what it is to be authentic. To be true to myself. To be alive.
I want to peel back the layers of resistance and conditioning to embrace my own integrity. Anything less is just existing.”

A man will often say:

“I want to know what it is to be a man. To take my place in the world. The man I want to be is the lover and the warrior, the father and the brother in his true integrity.

He feels the clear direction of his life force energy alive in his body. This energy surges through from base to crown as a strong statement of his being. It does not build in his base just to be expended there.

The man I want to be draws on this juice for his drive, his passion, and for his place in the world. He allows it to fuel the fire in his belly and in his heart. He is not afraid to feel anymore.

This man has awareness of his real self. There is no denial. No disconnecting. He can stand tall in everything that he is, and live fully from that place.

In this kind of lovemaking, we take off our disguise, we disarm, we lower the mask.

With our lover we can open deeper in surrender to a unity unattainable by effort, willpower or striving.
It is a shared bliss and a boundless pleasure.